You have a God given right to enjoy life.
Of course there will be difficult days,difficult people and difficult situations.
You have to learn what is and isn't important to you,what you're willing to work for and what it is you need,want and desire.
Once you have figured that out,everything else should fall into place.
You stop sweating the small stuff that has nothing to do with your happiness or well being.
Sorry to say some of the small stuff will be people.
I have this philosphy I've lived by for years and it has helped me immensely and I'm sure it can do the same for you.
If something doesn't bring positivity,joy,wisdom and happiness to me I don't need it or them in my life.
This is a very big lesson,it'll be an ahhh,haaa moment for many.
We all have them in our lifes, toxic,negative people.
We seem to feel that we are obligated to friends and associates to be nice, common and courteous.
You only owe that to people who return it and respect you.
Don't get caught up in how long you've known a person or that you just can't believe they would do such a thing or say such a thing.
If something transpires and you're surprised at an action.
Shake it off and keep moving on with your happiness.
Why?
That's what they're trying to mess with!
Some people can't stand to see others happy,successful,being loved or any of the good stuff we all want for ourselves and others if you're a truehearted and loving being.
These people will try to bring you drama in whatever avenue they can.
I have had to sever quite a few so-called friendships.
I saw the signs for awhile but sometimes you hope/think it's not what it is...jealousy,envy and hate!
It's really sad to think that some people are jealous of others happiness,but what's really sad is that this person is just watching and waiting for you to fail or for your relationship to go sour for them to feel some joy in your pain.
These people are the biggest hypocrites so watch them closely.
You know them and once you identify the characteristics you'll know also.
Here's afew...
Always having something to say about things you do in a negative way.
Example: Why you need to buy that? You always spending money.
Always have something to say negative about peoples actions but doing the action themselves.
Example: Why do these scandalous women sleep with other people's husbands or men?
All the while they're emailing and prank calling the wives and girlfriends of the man/men they're sleeping with.
I could go on and on but these are just afew I have experienced first hand.
I've had so-called friends go after a man of mine,an ex of mine and try to take a few friends of mine.
Luckily I know where I stand because it all comes to light everything you try to do in the dark.
My life isn't suppose to filled with such negative,toxic,ugly things.
My life is all about living positivity,loving my life and my family,and growing in spirit,in God and in life.
If your friends aren't of the same mindset,it'll come to light.
And you'll see what it is so-called friends are really after.
Being it your man,your friends,or them just thinking they can do you better than you can.
Hate to say it but everyone that claims to be a friend isn't,but you can't go through life contantly looking upside people's head trying to figure them out.
Let the chips fall where they may and it'll all come to light.
Then address the situation accordingly.
That being said life is easier once the clutter is cleared.
Organize your life and remove the clutter,whatever it maybe.
It's truly cleansing!!
As Always...Blessings To All!!
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