Knowing your limits!

You need to know your limit in every area in life. But most importantly you must know your limits in relationships.

You need to know that first off love doesn't hurt, and especially not phyically.

There is never a reason for a man and woman to fight. Definitely not the one you love and are trying to spend the rest of your life with. There has to be a ultimate value of respect on each part to never reach this point. You must also know not to push someone buttons to make a situation worse.I know sometimes it's hard to walk away but it's probably for the best.

Have a set way that dialogue is handled for problems and never in the heat of things. That's usually how things spiral  out of control. Agree maybe to write it in a note to read 30 mins later. Time to think about the problem and several solutions before trying to attack it.

This also works with your children but of course sometimes it flys out the window. But just try this. Before confronting your child, Take a few cleansing breathes maybe 10-15. Think about some of the things you got away with growing up(laugh),think about how you felt when your parents were disappointed in you(frown),these things may help soften the mood (or licks or punishment)But it will definitely make you think twice.

Know your limits...some should not be pushed!!!!

Never Stop Being You!

There is nothing wrong with being alittle different, odd or eclectic.

As a matter of fact that's exactly what swagger is. Having your own way about you,something that everyone has but not quite like yours. It's like a hat. Everyone can wear one but everyone wears them differently.

Individuality is a character trait to embrace, not be ashamed of. It should be played up not played down.

So learn to embrace all that you are.

Never Stop Being You!

What Do You Want?


That's the question and only you hold the key to that answer.

This question can be placed in all aspects of life or hard decisons. What do you want?  Then adjust your mindset and focus on the solution,on how to get the result you want. It may take several steps and a little amount of time. But if you are focused,driven and motivated you will make it happen.


Now ask yourself.......What do I want?

Taking Time Out For Yourself!

In today's fastpaced,non-stop world we sometimes forget to take time out for ourselves. We are so busy making sure that everyone is taken care of that we sometimes forget about number 1 and the other 3.

The number 1 in my case is The Creator, for you it maybe something else. But we all know we didn't get here by ourselves.

The other 3 Me,Myself and I.

You have to do you. If you don't do you, who will?  Doing you, I mean taking care of you and your needs and wants. Making sure that you are doing everything to stay happy, healthy,motivated and moving forward
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Of course no one's happy 24 hrs a day 7 days a week,you know you need some sleep in there sometimes.

You have to conditon your mind to stay positive and alert.

Alert meaning recognizing quickly if something isn't right and especially not right for you. Keep away from negative situations,negative people and negative surroundings.

You also must take care of your physical.You know the saying "If you don't move it,you'll lose it."

So keeping it moving, and take alittle time out for yourself!!!

There comes a time in everyone's life when they must grow up!

This growth may be jump started by unforseen circumstances far beyond anyone's control. A parent passing ,a sick parent or short-term separation from family and friends. Whatever the case a person has to learn to fin for themselves and sometimes others. Suddenly being responsible for siblings and sometimes parents. Situations like these make a child grow up sooner than they are ready for or suppose too.Unfortunately many kids these days are forced to "man up"way before their time.

How a child handles these situations will formulate their behavior from that point. Be it right or wrong it is what it is.And this is a make or break moment.This is where character and backbones are built or broken.

It is sad that in today's society kids are forced to grow up way too soon.

Let's us pray for the youth!!!!

Time to vent!!!!!

What is it with married men,acting like single men.

I've been approached 3 times this week by married men. You see when a man approaches me in this manner to get to know me,I ask a few key questions,and then I state fact.

"I do not date married men or men that are involved in a relationship." If you are separated, look me up when your divorce is finalized.

All 3 men still tried to give me their number,and continued to try to convince me to atleast have a drink or cup of coffee w/them. Of course,I refused and went on my way.

But what if I was that homewrecking type of  woman, that didn't care and just wanted a man.Luckily, I am not.I try to keep bad karma away from me.You must also stir clear of bad situations.

Messing with another's spouse/significant other is a bad situation.

Let's live drama free!!!

Wow! Time sure is flying on bye it's already Febuary!!!

How are we doing, are those pounds starting to melt off,are you staying focused on your goals?

Whatever the situation,roll with it baby. If you fell off then fall back on, and roll with it!

Invest in you,it's a guaranteed return.

Until next time....Stay Blessed!!